I must admit that I am somewhat a klutz when it comes to relationships… Maybe I dunno how to manage? No Luck? Destine to remain a spinster? Hmm.. whaaaatever K
For one, I am from the old school of tots whereby I would still prefer the guys to make the 1st move. Hahaha… dat would more or less indicate dat I am no longer young 
( just realise that in a particular section of my blog, my age could be calculated by doing a tad of math )
I do realise dat this old thinking of mine could work to my disadvantage in the present world.. However, I just cant seem to overcome it by making the 1st move. Pride? Fear of rejection? Highly possible..
A couple of guy frenz did mention dat even guys nowadays do feel shy thus not daring to make the 1st move.. Err… so if the guys r shy.. then what about us gals:-??
Recently, I joined a social activity together with my best pal. What r best pals for eh? She told me that she felt dat 1 of the guys is pretty suitable for me.. From the way dat guy and I communicated + some other observation of hers, best pal had been urging me to make the 1st move citing dat it would be an opportunity wasted K
Yesterday, when I told a guy fren about this guy from the social activity, he said.. “U r already ¼ of a scarecrow”.. Ouch.. How it hurts yet no denying that his words hold some truth. L
Yet, in this head of mine, I keep thinking, how embarrassing it would be if I were to initiate contact but the outcome aint mutual? Besides, we did exchange contact number.. meaning to say dat dat guy has my number too so if he’s interested to develop this frenship, he would have made his move..
Anyone out there ever had or has the same mentality as mine? Any suggestions to overcome it?
Maybe the guys out there could provide some constructive insights too?
